Wednesday, February 22, 2006

Contempt for the Mushy Middle

I'm going to excerpt a portion of another blog below. The excerpt is long, but the blogger pens a coherent path to his conclusion. I'd like you to read it, trying to figure out who it is coming from. What organization is this fellow representing? Who is he talking about? Why is he so worked up? Try to get a picture of the mindset of this writer, and at the end, I'll tell you who he is.

... this week I want to write about the Pastor as Pacifier. Other titles come to mind. Were I to be more clever, I would have entitled this the "Pastor as Passivist." Its not a word, but it gets across the meaning I am intending: some pastors watch the machinations and ministrations undertaken by activists in their church and choose to remain, well, passive. I could have called this article the "Pastor as Enabler," for the result of choosing to remain passive is that one further enables the church to continue to be attacked.

I choose the title "Pacifier" because it comes closest to naming the underlying motives of this pastor: keep peace at all costs. For whatever reasons there may be--and there are many (we will explore some of them)--some pastors engage this conflict in their church with a predicated avoidance.

Why? And at what cost to the church? That is what we need to explore. There really are many reasons why a pastor whose church has been targeted for attack would wish for, opt for, hope for, and long for peace and refuse to engage in the conflict that results.

One of them is ignorance. I don't mean this is any pejorative way: I mean only to suggest that pastors who have spent their careers watching one church squabble after another can infer from the evidence that what they are witnessing here is just another church fight. And many have learned the hard way over time that it is wise to stay neutral on matters of church dispute: taking sides can result in the loss of offended members.

What they may not realize--in other words, that of which they may be ignorant (and this can be costly)--is that this fight is different. It is much less internal than, say, a battle over which hymnal to purchase, whether or not to expend endowment funds for the purchase of a new piece of property, or when to schedule the new second service. This battle involves outsiders with much more nefarious intentions, and passive indifference in their presence will be costly. Informing local church pastors of the web of connections that feed this monster is essential.

Another reason for pacifying is, to put it bluntly, that some clergy just don't have a stomach for the fight. There are personality types for whom conflict avoidance is a matter of personal choice. An incredible amount of energy and time can be spent triangulating with conflicting members in order to pacify them and--if needed--keep them at bay. Pastors can even find it ennobling to brush one unresolved conflict after another under the carpet. And the relief they feel at having avoided conflict, coupled with memories of times when these efforts failed them, empowers them to repeat the strategy.

In all fairness, it should be pointed out that sometimes conflict avoidance can avert much more disastrous consequences. And one can easily understand that most pastors' inclinations tend more towards acts of kindness, grace, and compassion--especially toward members they have been called to shepherd. Good men and women who have been called into ministry to preach the gospel, to care for the sick and needy, and to bind up the wounds of the broken-hearted never imagined that they would be called upon to engage in battle against the very people they chose to serve. One of the untold stories in this saga is the intense pain it is causing such pastors.

There is little judgment in this analysis. But there is much to observe. And it should be properly noted that avoidance tactics in these circumstances only exacerbate the problem. This is not a conflict that can be wished away. Pastors whose resolve is, to quote the noble Chief Joseph, to "fight no more forever" gain some level of personal comfort at the expense of their churches.

Fueled with both propaganda and motive by outside agitators, those members who have committed to this battle do not believe that compromise, peaceful negotiations, or fatigue are legitimate reasons to end their attack. And Pastors who believe that they have quieted the troops with some sort of peaceful resolution must be very wary. Another attack is being planned.

I am witnessing in these days one good pastor after another abandon churches in the middle of intense conflict, unwilling to enter the fray in defense of their church's history, tradition, and heritage. They leave such churches to the wiles of a crafty opponent who will not take defeat easily; and to the hope that among the laity can be found those who do have a stomach for the battle. But they are not easy to find.
In a reply to my Feb. 7 article ("Anatomy of an Attack: Part 1), "Mainstream Baptist" writes: "Those who lack scruples against character assassination, slander, lies and gossip are parasites that feed on the reservoir of trust that people of genuine spirituality and integrity earned for their communities of faith. When the unscrupulous are finished eating the heart out of their churches, nothing is left but a hollow and fragile shell. From hard experience, I have learned that most moderate Christians would rather switch churches than fight to preserve their church from [our opponents]. The majority of the moderates who refuse to switch churches, prefer to appease [the opponents'] cliques--preserving some small measure of personal tranquility--rather than facing and confronting those who defame the character and intentions of those who have the courage and conviction to oppose [our opponents]. Bystanders enable the perpetrators by allowing them to deal with their victims one-by-one."

What he writes here about church members is no less true of their pastors: some would rather switch than fight. And "bystanders enable the perpetrators." I can, and have, observed the behavior of such pastors. I can, and do, understand their inclinations.

What I cannot do is stand idly by and watch the church I love be attacked from the outside with no righteous cause or purpose. Pastors in this time can no longer afford the comfortable choice of laying low. To do so is to become complicit in what will be the inevitable outcome. To leave this battle to the laity alone is unwise, unfair, and unwarranted.

Okay, you've made it through. Who wrote it? Who are the good guys, and who are the villains? Who are the sitting-duck victims and who are the perpetrators--the "outsiders with much more nefarious intentions"?

Is the writer from the New Wineskins movement, bemoaning how progressive infiltrators have taken over the structures of the church? No. Is this someone who would write a letter to The Layman out of outrage about the indifference of the church to the people perverting the plain meaning of our Constitution and driving good Christian folk to other, more faithful churches? Nope. Is this a renewal group leader, bemoaning all those Presbyterians asleep at the switch and complacent in their seats, while a great evil is being perpetrated in their midst? Not that either.

The writer is John Dorhauer, and the blog is Talk2Action, a harshly cynical and sour electronic bulletin board for all things progressively paranoid. This man is scared silly that the Institute on Religion and Democracy--the renewal organization I serve--has totally infiltrated the mainline religious world and controls everything, with the purpose of destroying denominations for some fuzzy political objective dictated by conspiring conservative politicians. It is an amazing delusion that would be laugh-out-loud humorous if it weren't so cynically pathetic.

So, when the run-of-the-mill church leader is not as totally freaked out as Dorhauer is about renewal groups trying their best to return straying denominations to their faith roots, then he labels as enablers or "passivistic" these pastors who are not willing "to engage in battle against the very people they chose to serve" (people who probably have a better grasp on the faith than most progressive pastors and leaders, I might add).

I find it interesting--even amusing-- that Dorhauer is so worked up about the alleged control and total effectiveness of renewal groups such as IRD. I suppose we should take that as a backhanded compliment! But I find it sad that he is laboring so hard to rouse the troops to fight against orthodoxy and biblical faithfulness.

I suppose he hasn't figured out yet that it is ultimately a losing cause to flail against those who simply seek the Word and will of God. Or maybe he has figured it out, and thus the panic.


Anonymous Anonymous said...

Ah yes, that old "mean conservative hatemonger" blah blah from the Left.

How tiring. Why don't they get some new material, rather than that same old mantra!

12:38 PM, February 23, 2006  
Blogger thekeez said...

You have completely misrepresented the article and the issue he was talking about. Your dishonesty reflects poorly on your self-professed Christianity.

And you are more than aware that articles of the same nature are prepared and diseminated by your Catholic organization - the IRD.

It is telling that you fail to actually engage the issues raised by the writer and instead, stoop to name-calling and rude attacks on the personality of the writer and his organization.

You have chosen this tactic because you are aware that what he writes is accurate. You know full-well that conservatives are working around the country to assault churches and pull them from denominations.

Just last year here in Virginia, conservatives tried to pass legislation giving congregations ownership of their church properties so that they could more easily pull out of denominations.

Don't try to downplay your beloved IRD. It is extremely well-funded by secular conservatives and fringe Catholic groups.

You claim to be a Christian - at least be honest.

Jeff Keezel
St. Luke's United Methodist Church
Richmond, Virginia

7:39 AM, March 09, 2006  
Blogger Rob said...

How do you argue that a citation that long could possibly misrepresent anything? How can you possibly blame conservatives for "assaulting" churches when it's liberals who want to rip them away from what the church has always believed? And how on God's green Earth can you complain about Jim's tone when you're pretending to read his mind to accuse him of duplicity and dishonesty?

News flash, Mr. Keezel: just because someone doesn't believe what you want them to believe and tell you what you want to hear doesn't mean they're dishonest. Even if they're wrong, it is possible for people who disagree with you to do so honestly and with full integrity.

10:29 AM, March 14, 2006  
Blogger Jim said...

Doggoneit, Rob! You're going to make Jeff mad by asking him to actually quit DOING what he is accusing me of doing. Or asking him to think and write logically, when he's just plain angry and won't be logical or fair, as you expect.

The problem is, I was just about to ask Jeff for more information about the "extremely well funded" part of his note, and why I haven't seen any of it. But I think you've gone and ruined it. Dang!

I mean, for the entire Presbyterian Church Gigantic Demolition Project that it appears he's sure we're about, why, with piles of money, is IRD devoting exactly one half-time person to the task--me? And why haven't I spent a moment tearing down the denomination? What idiots we must be! All that MONEY, and no attention to the task.

Maybe Jeff could do me a favor and show me the money in this, uh, "Catholic" organization that gets by okay through the thoughtful gifts of people who value the work we do.

Jim Berkley

7:28 PM, March 14, 2006  
Blogger Rob said...

Hey now, I gave you plenty of opportunity to take care of business--five full days and change should be enough for anybody. :)

And yeah, that "Catholic" tag did seem a little odd . . .

11:44 PM, March 14, 2006  

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